positive and productive?
or, negative and toxic?

You know Kevin, right?
Sure, the name may be different. But the conversation is the same.
It sounds something like:
Did you hear what I did? I . . . and then there’s this long list of alleged accomplishments.
And then there’s, You didn’t know how to do that? Oh I already knew that years ago. Kevin really does know everything.
What about, She’s such a loser. How many of her failures can the boss put up with? It’s always someone else’s fault, right?
The blame game shows up with, My work could be so much better if the company would hire some people who actually want to work.
Recognize any of those?
Sure you do.
Kevin is the poster child for negative work cultures everywhere.
Just ask the millions of people who swapped negative cultures during The Great Resignation. Now they’re members of The Great Regret club.
Kevin and his minions are everywhere. They belong to that species of employees known as suckus negativeus, more commonly referred to as Eeyore Vampires.
They are Eeyores because everyone else’s ideas never work. They’re dumb. Impossible. Because they aren’t his.
They are Vampires because they suck the lifeblood—time with family and friends—out of everyone including you. Maybe especially you because in HR you’re the dumping ground for all of Kevin’s garbage. How do you deposit trust in teams when he withdraws so much?
And watch out when Kevin is a manager. Manager Kevin is the reason the Society for Human Resource Management (SHRM) survey finds that 54% of employees resign.


Especially in work conversations.
So how can you transform work conversations?
I mean, you do want something else to talk about, right?


people because every person matters.
productivity because performance matters.
profits because money matters.
attracts top talent
reduces team turnover, and;
increases productivity and profitability
Something to Talk About mini-course:

Celebrate the death of The Ego Economy
Capitalize on the new We Economy
Check your ego at the door and collaborate now

Discover how to innovate and create so you don’t disintegrate and die
Deal with the tsunami of change and make it your competitive advantage
Determine that if you’re the smartest person in the room, you must leave

Learn why “I’m a failure” belongs in the distant memory of the Ego Economy
Look at failure as an experience, instead of a person
Leverage “try” as an open door to repeated efforts, each one that brings you closer to the desired result

Identify what’s “Beyond My Control”
Take action on what you can do today
Understand why there is no tomorrow in the We Economy

Why boots are too slow for today’s work culture
How to know when you’re more resistant to change than you admit
Why your teams must pulse to innovate and create


In fact, for a time, we were Kevins.
it was easier to go along to get along, and;
we didn’t know a better way.
Jane and I transformed with some help from our friends in the coaching community. People who invested in us, who helped us grow and add skills to our strengths.
Our transformation poured the foundation of The Work Positive Manager Coach Training Program.
So what if I told you there’s a growing tribe of UnKevin Managers who will accept you unconditionally?
And invest in you so you grow and add skills to your strengths?
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