
But you know him when you see him. Or, her, right?
They assume since you and Kevin are both managers, you’re like Kevin.
Top down.
Competitive.
What’s that?
That’s not fair. You’re nothing like Kevin.
Really?
What about when Kevin sucks up to your boss, bragging about what his team did under his expert leadership?
You don’t step up and say something like, “Well Boss, let me tell what MY team did!”?
Or, in your next team meeting, do you hear yourself say:
“You will meet this goal and I don’t care if you have to work all weekend!”
“Whose bright idea was it to try that strategy?”
“What do you mean you don’t know? It’s your job to know!”
The struggle is real.


Kevin and his tribe are Eeyores because they know better than everyone else.
Your idea will never work. It’s stupid. Because it’s not his idea.
Kevin and his tribe are Vampires because they suck your lifeblood—time with family and friends. Kevin and his clan drain your heart and stomp around in your head when you’re not working.
The truth is Kevin sucks as a manager.
Kevin Culture sucks every team’s productivity and the company’s profits down.
What are you supposed to do about Kevin Culture?
How are you supposed to separate yourself from Kevin’s tribe so you’re no longer a manager who’s guilty of negativity by association?
What CAN you do to become The UnKevin Manager?

You can resign. Join the ranks of The Great Resignation.
Kevin Culture and his Eeyore Vampire managers already infiltrated the next company.

people because every person matters.
productivity because performance matters.
profits because money matters.
attracts top talent
reduces team turnover, and;
increases productivity and profitability.

And what is an UnKevin manager anyway?
We’ll talk about how in a minute.
Let’s talk about what an UnKevin Manager is right now.
First, The UnKevin Manager collaborates instead of commands.
She sees her team as highly skilled, gifted and motivated persons who want to work from their strengths and passions connected to the company mission.
He is secure enough in who he is to ask his team, “What do you think?” and “What can we do?”
Second, The UnKevin Manager coaches instead of competes.
He views his team as “the experts” in their chosen specialties. His role is to ask powerful questions that create their new awareness about work projects. Then he helps them align actions and build in accountability so they succeed.
She actively listens to and maintains a coaching presence with her team regardless of how much stress Kevin Culture puts on her. She focuses on the positive outcomes they all want and filters out the competitive culture Kevin fosters.
Third, The UnKevin Manager constantly develops new skills instead of consistently repeating past mistakes.
She knows leaders are readers. She prompts her team to recommend new books. She shares what she’s reading and her take-aways and insights.
people because every person matters.
productivity because performance matters.
profits because money matters.
attract top talent
reduce team turnover, and;
create a positive work culture that increases productivity and profitability
I wish I had a blueprint years ago.


In fact, for a time, we were Kevins.
it was easier to go along to get along, and;
we didn’t know a better way.
Jane and I transformed with some help from our friends in the coaching community. People who invested in us, who helped us grow and add skills to our strengths.
Our transformation poured the foundation of The Work Positive Manager Coach Training Program.
So what if I told you there’s a growing tribe of UnKevin Managers who will accept you unconditionally?
And invest in you so you grow and add skills to your strengths?
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